Introduction

Love if patient, love is kind, it doesn’t envy, it doesn’t boast, it isn’t proud, It isn’t rude, it isn’t self-seeking, it isn’t easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs. Love doesn’t delight in envy but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always preserves. Love never fails.
There are a few things that love isn’t. Love isn’t a feeling. Although love is often accompanied by strong feelings, love doesn’t equate with the sense of floating on clouds. Unlike the type of love that movies, television, and strong portray, people in love don’t always feel the sort of adrenaline rush as the actors feel in the videos. A relationship wouldn’t last long on emotions. In fact, Knowledge is the basis of a healthy relationship.
1 Knowing about the other person is a key: Let’s take and example of a college boy who sits beside a girl in class. He may ‘fall in love’ with the girl even if he hasn’t had even a simple conversation with the girl. He would know the girl’s name and her face, but that would be the limitation of the boy’s knowledge of that girl. If the boy were to start a relation with that girl, who knows how haywire it may go. So, the knowledge of physical appearance of a boy/girl is not the main aspect of love. The key of love, the main secret of love, is held in the personality of that particular person.
2 Never start a relation that you may feel that you won’t be able to complete of continue later. Love is a choice. It is a commitment. Even if you want to start a relation, start a relation with someone who has the same common goal as you. That is why many people start a relation only during their college life or after that because after that they will follow a same path to a same of similar career.